A girl tabled a complain thus: MY GUY HASN'T CALLED ME SINCE 4 DAYS NOW, DOES IT MEAN HE DOESN'T LOVE ME? WHY HASN'T HE CALLED? I DON'T REMEMBER US HAVING ISSUES! PLS WHAT SHOULD I DO?
hmmm! is this love or selfishness?? a quote says "everybody is meant to love! but not everyone knows what love is, and how to love!, which ends up leaving most people NOT having successful relationships"..
if your guy has been a good caller right from his pursuit on you even after you've accepted his interest on you; don't fall in love with the attention/calls so much that you forget you also have a role to play in it.
we guys aint fools!, we might be the ones calling and giving all the attention; but the moment we realize that you only and always FLASH or send CALL-Me messages/expect every attention from us, we'd step back a bit to see if you truly love us by allowing you make efforts to reach us..
COMMUNICATION they say, plays a tremendous role in relationships, but most gurls think this responsibility lies on we guys only!. This is where you'd see CHATS become boring cuz they'd sit back looking at their phone screens, waiting for we to say something or keep replying with single words like; FINE, SAME HERE, GOOD, OK etc.
Helloooo! if you're such a person, trust me as i say this that you'd definitely BORE him to death with time.
When it comes to communication; both on CALLS and CHATS!, please learn to make it a MUTUAL responsibility... its not forced upon, that's what True love does to you.. Love is a TWO HEART THING! or a TWO WAY THING! not ONE!..
So, wake up! from you "HE SAID HE LOVES ME!, SO HE SHOULD DO EVERYTHING TO SHOW IT". Words like 'please you only and always'...Thats not love! but a CONDITION!...#shouting_in_a_loud_voice
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