Wednesday, 28 December 2016

Ladies Label


This post is for the ladies.  I will probably offend some people with this post, but that's what happens when someone is straightforward and speaks their mind...

Ladies, why to you make posts labeling yourselves? Things like: "I'm hot"; "I'm beautiful"; "I'm sexy"; etc...   Usually when someone has to announce to the world what they are, they are either starved for attention, or letting people know what they wish to be.

The ironic part is that you get all the attention you asked for....yet complain that no one respects you.  But, subconsciously,  that is what you attracted.

A real woman doesn't have to announce who she is.  She doesn't have to post pics of herself half dressed to let people know she's a woman.   A real woman just has to breathe, be true to herself.  People will automatically notice that she is a principled person with character,  integrity and class.

When you label yourself,  you are limiting yourself to that label.  You should be making your personal possibilities limitless.  Shame on you for taking that away from yourself and from what God wants you to be.

Stop using labels.  Start being real.

Monday, 26 December 2016

Merry Christmas and a prosperous new year!!!

Christmas Is A Joyous Occasion. May This Season Help You Find Real Happiness In Life, Work And Love May Jesus Christ’s Spirit Provide You with The Wisdom To Discover The Things That Will Bring You Happiness. Merry Christmas and a wonderful new year in advance to you and your families.

Best regards!!

Tuesday, 20 October 2015

THE ELECTRONIC MAIL, NIGERIAN’S RESPONSIVENESS






The email, which is short for electronic mail, is an information and technology tool which seeks to use technology to communicate or transfer information/digital message from the encoder to the decoder over a wireless network (e.g. internet). Following the advent of the electronic system of communication and message transfer, which aims at bringing to a sudden halt to all the logistics involved in the delivery of mails and goods by the post masters, the electronic mail which is the first ‘e-revolution’ in the business communication is simple to understand and use, as it, like postal mail solves both the problems of communication, synchronization and logistics. The electronic mail constitutes of three different parts, the envelope, the message header and the message body; where the header refers the part that bears the recipient email address, usually descriptive information is required, such as subject header field and message submission date/time stamp. There are many software platforms available to send and receive an email. Popular email platforms include Google mail (Gmail), yahoo mail, outlook, hotmail and many others.
This advancement in technology has over the past few years been tremendous; it is this horrendous nature of spread that qualifies it to be the choicest means of communication the world over. The electronic mail is perceived from a single perspective leaving in the dark all its other function. The electronic mail having been a modified memo tool can be used as a reminder, a calendar as well as store up important conversation. In the past two decades, email has caught up with the telephone as an everyday medium of communication, both in business and personal life.  It was found that a large percentage of adults in the U.S check their mails much more than they surf the net or even check their Facebook account, making emails the most popular activity for users to do on their smart phones. More than any other activities we indulge in, communication ranks top of the list. Meeting new people, keeping in touch with old and new friends has given rise to diverse medium of communication.
In the African context, the relevance of effective communication is just as it is with the rest of the world. The traditional mediums of communication have been challenged by 21st century trends thus making the use of the electronic mail more superior to all other advanced mediums. Faxing letters did not gain as much popularity as short messaging service (SMS), or even the telephoning system. The use of email just synchronized with the demands of the African people; hence the ease of adoption. The rate at which it was accepted, recorded a high shift in the response to new technology. With each organization creating an email address to individuals owning a private mail address. Only the effective use of the internet is a bit on the high in certain African countries. The cost of internet in African countries burdens the efficient use of the electronic mail. In spite of all of the hiked internet prices, the use of the email has generally not been impaired. The development of smart phones has tipped the scale towards the consistent use of mails. This development further enhanced the accessibility of the electronic mails from the convenience of our homes, offices – ubiquity.
Amazingly, hitherto in Nigeria, many are yet to create an email address of their own. Thus pointing out that the electronic mail is yet to permeate the area. Yet, the few who have it are yet to tap into the overall germane of the electronic mail as a grave medium of communication. When an email is sent, there are high expectations from the sender to receive a reply. There are but a few reasons as to why an email can be responded to: prior to sending the mail, a relationship existed between the sender and the recipient, a bulk email that carries vital information. Otherwise, the major reasons why mails are not responded to by the recipient revolves around interest. Presentation of our message matters here, although it is a general rule of thumb that, in the absence of a mail machine, organizations as well as individuals should check there mail box at intervals. Some of the ways to send an email that bequeaths a need for a response depends on the sender even though Sending emails requires a certain degree of caution, the internet is a vast area of harnessed and unharnessed space, and whatever you send out there may never be retrievable.
1. A lot of email users in Nigeria do not use the ‘subject line’ or do not know to how to use it. The subject line space has to be filled, it is here that the general idea of the email dwell; giving the recipient a hint of what is contained in the email.
2. Using capital letter while sending a mail, will most often than not come across as an angry tone. Using capital or block letter in writing a mail reduces the readability of the mail alongside wrong punctuations and vulgar languages, some email platforms have firewalls setup to check and block vulgar. If they pass, which they seldom do, emails of this sort are barely returned.
3. So many persons use names other than their real names as their email addresses, this may affect in a downward curve the rate at which mails are replied, it is always safer to create signatures where your name and functions of your organization are represented in black and white.
4. While forwarding an email, it is best to check what is written below the last email, there may be unwanted or undesired content, this may lead to embarrassment when sent.
5. Using the ‘carbon copy’ (CC) may be very important and also detrimental, check before using this. People receive mails every day; it will not be nice to send mails to persons who have no connection to the message, especially in a work place setting. It is better to use the ‘Blind carbon copy’ (BCC), this may help protect your image as many people would pick offence in your actions of displaying their email addresses.


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Friday, 16 October 2015

7 things you shouldn’t do after a breakup













Battling a breakup? We feel your pain. When you’re newly single, your head’s in a spin, you’ve hardly slept and you’re probably acting kind of irrationally. Before you do anything drastic, read this list of seven things you should never do after a breakup, and then avoid them like the plague:

Breakup blunder 1: Do not try to remain friends

Rarely can two people make a smooth transition from being lovers to friends, but if you’re going to give it a go, don’t try until the wounds have healed. Remaining friends straight after your relationship ends doesn’t leave you enough time or space to properly get over it. Cut all ties straight away, at least until your wounds have healed.

Breakup blunder 2: Do not stalk them on Twitter or Facebook

As if we didn’t have enough to contend with during a breakup, we now live in an age where social media makes matters worse. Sitting around refreshing your ex partner’s Facebook profile is a serious breakup blunder though; if you’re feeling the need to take a sneaky look, it’s probably best to delete them off all social network websites altogether. You will only get upset if you see your other half has “liked” someone else’s photo or changed their relationship status. Why torture yourself?


Breakup blunder 3: Do not turn to alcohol

When we’re feeling down in the dumps, drowning our sorrows in drink can sometimes seem pretty appealing. Don’t do it though – mixing breakups and alcohol is like mixing milk with vodka; it will end in one curdled mess. The chances are, you’ll get drunk and then make one or more of the other mistakes in this list. Instead, keep yourself occupied by surrounding yourself with friends and family who you can vent your feelings to without any judgement or lost inhibitions.

Breakup blunder 4: Do not go on the hunt for someone else

“The best way to get over a person is to get under a new one” – myth.  Got an ex boyfriend or girlfriend shaped hole in your heart? Don’t try to fill it. You need to wait for the wound to heal naturally, rather than try to patch it up. Using another person to help you get over your ex is not only selfish, it’s counterproductive. You need to deal with your emotions head on, but the rebound method only prolongs your pain as you never fully deal with your feelings. Sex with someone else is a serious no-no too. This will leave you feeling used and ashamed.



Breakup blunder 5: Do not believe you will always feel this way

Yes, you’ve demolished 10 packets of tissues and yes, you’ve burst into tears in front of your colleagues five times this week (and it’s only Monday morning), but don’t worry. It’s easy to feel as though you’ll never feel happiness again, but you will. Each day you will start to feel increasingly stronger until one day you realise that you no longer feel anything towards your ex.


Breakup blunder 6: Do not contact your ex for any reason

“I must remind him about his appointment with his eye doctor”, “I must call to ask how his mom is doing”… No, no, no, no, no! In that tricky period after you’ve broken up, you may find yourself sitting around thinking of excuses to ring your ex, but it’s important not to give into this urge. If you’ve both decided that breaking up is the right decision, leave your wounds to heal and eventually the temptation to ring your ex will fade away.

Breakup blunder 7: Don’t let yourself go

Breakups are the perfect excuse to sit around looking scruffy and scoffing ice cream by the gallon, but too much of a good thing is never good for you. Make the most of not having to look well groomed and suck your stomach in every time you’re with your partner, but once you’ve scoffed that gallon of rocky road for the fourth day on the run, it might be time to start reigning yourself in. Getting dressed and stepping out into the fresh air will do you a world of good.

Tuesday, 13 October 2015

FG unveils new NYSC certificates








ABUJA – FEDERAL Government, Tuesday, unveiled newly improved National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) certificates to be issued to corps members at the conclusion of the mandatory one year service to their fatherland. Speaking at the unveiling ceremony in Abuja, the Director General of the NYSC, Brig-Gen. Johnson Olawumi said the scheme took the step to wage war against forgery and impersonation.
The DG, represented by the Acting Director of Certification, Alhaji Aliu Daura, explained that the new certificate would be embossed with the carrier’s photograph in line with the global best practices. According to Olawumi, the issuance of the new NYSC certificate would take effect from Batch ‘C’ 2014, who will be passing out on 15 October.
“In our concerted effort to make the operation of the NYSC conform with global best practices, the scheme engaged in the holistic e-nysc solution with effect from Batch ‘C’ 2014 where prospective members register online before proceeding to the orientation camp. This resulted in the enhancement of issuance of NYSC certificates namely; Certificate of National Service, Certificate of Exemption and Letter of Exclusion.
“With effect from Batch ‘C’ 2014, all certificate of National Service bear passport photograph of the corps members at the upper right hand corner of the certificate. “This is to guarantee the security of our certificates from forgery and to block all chances of impersonation. Therefore batch ‘C’ 2014 corps members, who are due to pass-out on 15 October, 2015 will have their certificates embossed with their photograph,” he clarified.

New NYSC Certificate
Shielding more light on the categories of the NYSC certificates, the Director of Press, Mrs Abosede Aderibigbe said Certificate of Exemption is issued to a Full-time graduate, who is above the age of 30 at the time of graduation or such corps member is a staff of security agencies like Armed Forces, Nigeria Police, Department of State Security, National Intelligence Agency (NIA) and Recipients of National Presidential Honours Award.
For Letter of Exclusion, Aderibigbe further said that it was designed to take care of corps population, who are graduates of Part-time, Distance Learning and Sandwich programmes, adding that issuance of letter of exclusion commenced in 2001, and that, they would be able to register and print their letters on line. She noted that the scheme had gone digital, therefore verification of NYSC certificate could now be done electronically.